John

4 November 1955

Male

USA

I have always been attracted to the so-called sleepy fetish. Arm carrys grabbed my attention as a child. Even began sleepy.damsel in distress play when I was in the 4rth grade with the little girl next door who liked to be the unconscious victim, in need of rescue. We had no idea why, we just liked to play.

As I have gotten older I understand it much better and it is a big part of me.

Also, as I grew older, a darker side of the fantasy began to form. Death fantasy was becoming part of my sleepy fantasy. I realized it was really, for me, different sides of the same coin.

Asphyxiation has a big appeal to me. Mainly strangulation with hands. Rag Doll play has become a major favorite of mine.

Conversation, exchange of ideas. Getting new perspectives on my favorite fetishes. Used to role play a great deal, not so much anymore.

Play out my fantasies, even somewhat, the darker ones. Live role play is the best. Have not engaged in that in a long time,.