Sharon

Smif

24 February 1969

Female

U.S.A.

I'm a woman of 43, who actively lives the Cybelian lifestyle, with all that entails. I married my husband more than 10 years ago, after spending the prior nine months training him to accept the things I needed to do to him. Even after all that time, I'm still so deeply in love with him that it's sometimes almost more than I can do to draw breath as I watch him hold out his hands so I can fasten the cuffs on them.

We married a beautiful, dark-skinned woman more than five years ago, and then when I needed a male lover three years ago, the three of us soon fell in love with him, also. In 2009, the four of us recited the Words of Eternal Binding, and since that time we have been living in a group marriage, with all that entails in terms of trials and rewards.

I have written several stories that have themes related to this website. If you would like to see a sample, seventeen of them are posted at this link:

http://www.asstr.org/files/Authors/SharonSmif/

F/m, as it relates to women owning men in every way, and using them for their pleasure and relief. I think the sexual thrill I've always felt when my husband not only allows me to punish and use him, but actively cooperates, is beyond compare.

Both of us are extremely interested in cuckolding, which we've done many times. Any woman who has gazed deeply into her husband's eyes as she's being fucked by another man, and seeing the frantic lust he's feeling, knows why that particular thing is so erotic.

I have fantasized for a long time about someday having a willing woman in my power, and what it would be like to torture her as I do my husband. I truly thought that would never happen, but apparently good things come to a woman who is patient, and willing to wait for her fantasies to materialize. Less than two months ago, a young girl became our wife, and I quickly discovered she is very submissive, if not even masochistic. I am now slowly discovering delights that I had only dreamed of before, and there is surely nothing else that could be any more erotic than what has been happening lately in our lives.

I like to exchange letters with people I've met in sites like this one, in which we discuss all the wonderful things that turn us on. It's a fact that no one, no matter how experienced, knows every single thing about having sex, and from letter exchanges, I can learn things that will enrich our married life.

I simply don't have any time available for meeting other people, even as interesting as that may prove to be. For the time being, all contact with anyone not a member of our family will have to be limited to e-mail.