The number one question I get asked on here:

How do I get my Wife or GF to do the things your Wife does?

The truth is I set the tone for us being together right off the bat on the first date. You know wined her and dine her. Took her shopping, in other words treat her like a Queen. And when it came to the end of the first date I made damm sure to grap her tight and pull her in for a long hard kiss. (having half a hard on sealed the deal LOL).

Before we met I told her right out in details on several emails, how I was a Dom and explained to her what it was all about for me and my girls or Pets as I call them. She never did any of it before but, she is the type to at least try somerthing if for no other reason then to please me.

I do the same thing now. Treat her like a Queen. Buy her whatever she wants, take her where she wants to go. Hell I even cook dinner some nights if I get home early. Same thing for her family, if they need something I`m there. Calling up your Mother inlaw for a lunch date twice a year out of the blue does wonders for getting laid by the Wife.

The key is TRUST. And how much your wife trusts you. Make damm sure to show her that you trust her also. I have the type of Wife where I can leave cash in an unlock drawer and the keys in the classic cars here. She asks me for money if her pay check didn`t clear yet. Not a problem of course but, it`s just nice to be asked instead of taking some and not telling you. The other year she had to travel out of state for work and couldn`t get a flight being it was near Xmas. She was looking at a rental car to drive there (around 500 miles). To prove how much I trust her, I took her out to the garage and hand her the keys to my 2 year old Corvette. She used to on the trip with no problems at all.

Next step after trust is to START SLOW. You will only get one time of tieing your Wife up and or choking her if you rush things and hurt her. Make damm sure to stop every couple of minutes and ask her if she is all right. If anything hurts her STOP right then and there. Untie her and hold her tight to she her how safe she is with you. 9 times out of 10 after a minute or two my Wife asks me to try again. Don`t be surprised if your Wife freaks out on you from time to time even after she trust you. Mine still does at times mostly plastic over the face does it. Just roll with the punches.

Lastly be a man. In other words don`t be afraid to tell her what you want and how she is to dress for it. Again START SLOW, come up behind sometime and into her ear tell her how you want to fuck her brains out over the dinner room table. Tell her how much you can`t wait to taste her pussy juice. Or tell her to wear a skirt and stockings one night as you have a surprise for her. A long drive the the country with your hand up her skirt does wonders later that night after you park some place or get back home. Make it something you two have not done before, most Wifes (after you have trust) will love a new idea if for no other reason just to be alone with you.

I have got to the point now with my Wife where I can tell her say a week out, something like: next Saturday I`m taking you out to dinner at any place you wish. After which we will be coming home and I`m be tieing your ass up for a while. You are to wear this dress with these shoes, etc... And yes I know what she has in her closet to wear as I make it a point to buy clothes for her.

Hope this helps you some of you.

Rob