Were you to come to me for real, for dinner, I would greet you right from the get go as if you were a meat girl and treat you kindly, but as just that, meat still on the hoof.

I would have you undress and then I would inspect your meat, judging it and making mental notes. I might grade your various cuts.

Then I would wash the meat, making sure it really was ready for the cooking, can't cook dirty meat.  I prefer to be quite hands on with the meat, I would wash it carefully.

That done I would lay the meat on the preparation table and start to work in the basting oil. That would likely take an hour, making sure it was well massaged.

Once the oil has been well massaged, I would add the aromatic spices and massage those more gently into the meat.  I would use almond oil. The aromatic spices could be discussed.

Then I would arrange the meat in it's final plate position, array the legumes appropriately, perhaps stick an apple it it's mouth, and stop to take pictures, prior to dinner being served.

That done, dinner would be served. Guests would arrive to enjoy the dinner, which would be a mixture of sushi arrayed on the meat and fondue, where people can cook their raw meat slices, many of which would also be arrayed on the roast.

And I might find that that last little nibblet of sushi is just too hard to pick up with my chopsticks, it slipping out from between them each time I try...

So finally as dinner is winding down, I might resign myself to just eating that last nibblet right there where it sits on the sushi girl.

My very first actresses (fourteen years ago) were friends of mine. I told them about what I was intending to shoot, mentioned that their acting for me paid rather well, and asked if they would be interested. I am relatively comfortable with my own fetish and did not find it terribly difficult to be honest with women who were already friends of mine. Plus I am rather articulate and good at presenting ideas (I've won first and second speakers prizes at large debate tournaments at one point in my life), so I am able to paint our fetishes in their most positive light.

I do not approach strangers for modeling work. My actresses after those first few, universally either came to me through word of mouth of other actresses who had already worked with me or through other friends who knew someone who might be interested. Nowadays, most of my actresses are semi-professional in that they do other adult acting/modeling for other photographers/producers as well as myself. I think that is the best deal for everyone. I don't think people should be doing this sort of work unless they are making decent money from the work, plus the additional experience from working with other producers only helps their experience and talent.

I am actually sought after in my city by working actresses as I apparently pay better than many and I am frequently told that working with me is both more fun and more comfortable than working with other producers. We have an extremely professional, at the same time as friendly atmosphere on set, with a lot of laughter.

Someone a while back asked me; "Did you ever have sex with Ishtar?" He was refering to one of my actresses. That inspired me to respond with quite the article, which I thought many of you might enjoy.

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No, I have never had sex with Ishtar. Though if she jumped my bones, I doubt I could say no. I have a crush on most of my ladies, Ishtar included.

That said, I have very strict rules of conduct I impose upon myself as regards my comportment with my ladies. Specifically, I am not allowed to cruise them. I try very hard to not even flirt with them so as to not cross that line. I am however very friendly and talkative (sometimes to the detriment of the shooting). When I talk to them I look into their eyes, especially when they are naked. I do not watch them while they undress, I do not hang out in the dressing room while they are fiddling with costumes, if they are doing their makeup in the washroom, I make sure to give them privacy, etc.. I do not complain about their faults, I complement them on their qualities. Universally my ladies tell me that shooting with me is the most pleasant experience they have ever had working as models. I am quite proud of that and try hard to make sure that experience holds true for them all. I've been told that I am more comfortable to be naked in front of than their husbands/boyfriends.

Many of my ladies I consider to be friends, good friends even. Several of my very first models from way back were my friends before I started shooting (that's how they wound up as models). Many of my subsequent friends first met me as models. One of my girlfriends wound up modeling for me while we were together (I leave it to your imagination which one). Another of my models developed a crush on me and cruised me for years till I finally succumbed to temptation (which one I again leave to your imagination). It is quite normal for me to invite my ladies out to dinner after a shoot. It is quite normal for me to also invite their boyfriends.

I have indeed often attended birthday parties. I don't have birthdays of my own. ;-) I am a popular invite to parties where I am asked to invite my ladies (I am sure it's not for my own company that I am invited). The last party I went to I brought seven of my models with me to the party. I was not noticed at the party (by the other guests). You can be sure I will be re-invited. ;-)

The atmosphere in my studio is very relaxed and informal. Several of my ladies wind up doing other work than just modeling, work such as photo processing, web work, video editing, etc.. I have on several occasions come home from running some errand to find two or more ladies busy at work in their underwear and less because it was hot.

My girlfriend/model was also doing video editing for a good while, and early in that career she discovered an outfit in my costume room that she absolutely had to keep. She begged me to let her keep it and when I explained that I couldn't just let people keep all the costumes they liked, lest I run out of costume, she made a devils bargain. I accepted the bargain and she got to keep the costume. From then on, whenever she was in the studio, whether she was working or not, she was only allowed to be either nude or wearing a harem suit. On at least one occasion when we happened to have a harem set up, she treated me to a short harem dance, short because shortly the harem set got used for what harems and harem girls are supposed to be used for. Yes, I do have some fun.