Jason

Ramsey

3 December 1954

Male

US

Athletic, sensual, 6'1", 185#, work out, nonstop sex appetite, considered goodlooking (note: I shave bald) and very well endowed. Can stay hard through hours of sex if the company is hot. Lots of non-sexual interests too...professional guy, financial planner, work evenings and weekends, freer days. Fetish interests on the side, and I had direct experience in several areas. see elsewhere.

Have been a 24/7 training dom, and been part of a group experimenting with unusual ways of inducing orgasm. Screen writing background. Also did modeling and acting. Can hold my breath for long periods of time. Won a hanging contest by dangling and twitching over 1/2 hour at the end of a short-drop noose without losing consciousness.

I'd love to find a woman, any age, who would like to collaborate in some screen writing and possibly staging of erotic snuff fetishes of all kinds, including hanging, strangling, gutting, spitting, crucifixion, rack torture, whipping/caning etc. I live in So. California near San Diego.

I was introduced to "vaginal fisting" or as it's now called, "yoni massage" when I was 15 by my bi girlfriend of 18. She showed me how to get to places inside her body that brought her to mindbogglingly intense orgasms. It's a true art to find these places but the results in a woman's sex life make it so worth while.

Also love asphyx and underwater. My girlfriend and I practice modified choking during sex to enhance orgasm.

I was dating an Aspen girl in my early 20s...I lived just outside of town on a ranch. After we got to know each other a bit, she picked up on my interest in asphyx and invited me to a meeting. There were 16 girls at the time and another guy. the leader was a doctor and we met in his home. The other male only showed up once or twice so I was the only male most of the time. The usual number of girls was 14.

We had various interests. Several of the girls were pain lovers and so we tortured them for the orgasms it gave them. The leader, a doctor, did not allow anything to be done to permanent deface anyone's body, even if they wanted it. The closest thing was using red hot needles to skewer a girl's boobs. It left a little scar at the entry and exit point that you could hardly notice unless you were looking for it.

Most of us found asphyx to our liking. We didn't care that much for plastic bags...never caught on. We preferred a full hanging. Everything was done totally nude by everyone. It was like a nudist camp...no clothes. For the hanging, we had our wrists tied behind our backs in execution style. We used a very low stool and the rope was placed to minimize blood flow blockage...and maximize strangulation. So we were able to stay conscious for long periods of time as the noose gradually cut off our air. We learned not to air walk much...really cut our air off fast.

What most of us found was that we would have incredibly intense orgasms some 5-10 minutes into the dangle. I was born with large cum capacity somehow, so my orgasms would spurt for 10-15 or more times out into the room. Some of the girls were squirters and they sprayed the room too. We were all young and athletic, with low body fat. A few had not had much sexual experience. I let them handle my cock and balls as I was strangling and cumming. They loved to feel my orgasmic convulsions in both my cock and balls. It was fun for me too. I didn't mind being an "educational mannikin" for some of them. lol I guess they got an education in male sexual equipment that was all "lab". lol Sex was so innocent and just plain fun in those days. We didn't use condoms. Maybe we should have but we never felt we needed to protect ourselves from anyone there.

Besides the great orgasms, it was really sexy to watch a young, pretty and athletic nude girl struggling for what might have been her last breaths at the end of a rope, her neck stretched, her mouth open, her tongue hanging out, and her eyes bulging or staring upwards as she gasped as best as she could. You could see her struggle from the way her abs sucked in and her chest expanded. If she climaxed during the strangle, you could see the ripple of pleasure dancing up her abs. It was very erotic.

The other thing we enjoyed, most of us, was underwater bondage. We tied each other up with cotton rope to an anchor and were tossed into an 8' aquarium tank and had to hold our breath till we got loose. The knots tended to be tight and we had to learn how to not panic, get past the "crisis point" where you felt like your lungs were going to burst, and get free. I usually climaxed underwater after about 2 minutes. I had to continue working on my knots even though cum was shooting out of my cock and filling the water with goo. lol The hard thing was having so much intense pleasure and still having to hold my breath...it took concentration. But I got to just under 5 minutes. The champ got to about 6 and a half minutes. She had big boobs and I thought at the time that they gave her a special advantage. lol But she was beautiful to watch under water with that stunning figure. As she ran low on air, she sucked in her tummy more and more till I could see her intestines etched against her abs, or thought I could. It was very erotic.

I had learned vaginal fisting from my first girlfriend whom I met at my age 15, and as a sideline, taught it to the group using my girlfriend as "model". It really caught on and we had a number of fisting parties. I taught them how to fist a girl so that she is forced to climax very violently and can't prevent herself, as someone's hand is inside her massaging her innermost sensitive areas. I still fist a lot with my current girlfriend who absolutely adores being controlled and set into a chain of intense orgasms from my feeling her out inside her body. I introduced her to fisting soon after we met and she can't get over how violent her orgasms are now. It's wonderful for me too. Being inside a girl's body and feeling all her inner "girlie parts" is such a special treat....it's like being invited into a kind of goddess chamber, where wonderful amazing things are going on and I can feel her sex energy like a flow of electricity when she cums. I actually taught the technique in swing clubs for a while.

Other speculative fetish interests include sacrifice, choking, gutting, dismemberment of arms and legs, spitting, roasting on a spit, torture with branding irons and blow torches, stabbing with gutting, crucifixion, pussy cooking...

I have also had extensive experience (as watcher) with flogging, breast and pussy lip needle play (including total penetration of a woman's breast by a hot needle), nipple and pussy lip clamps, hot wax, branding, and the rack.

Explore our common experience, develop some fantasies that can be made into film, or just talked about, then launch out from there.

I find out what they enjoy doing, their attractions. Do they enjoy pain? How far do they like to go in pain? Are they more into extreme pleasure? Or do they prefer "vanilla sex" most of all? Would they like to practice breath control in one of its forms? I like to take a woman as far as she is willing to go. But no farther. I'm very careful about my partner's limits and work with "safe words".